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		<title>Bye bye, Bubbie</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Apr 2011 14:12:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruby Sinreich</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When my mother's family gathered in Austin at the end of last year, my son Izzy was re-introduced to his great-grandmother. (He couldn't talk yet the first time he met her.) "Izzy, this is Bubbie."

"Bubba!" he responded. We thought that was an appropriate nickname for my vivacious grandmother who moved from Long Island to Texas in her late 80's. She moved to be near one of her daughters, and got a bonus in the shape of her other great-grandchild Abby, who was born in Austin few months after Izzy was born here in Chapel Hill. Grandma Vickie established her painting studio in the garage of her new home (it was in the attic when she lived in New York) and even resumed teaching oil painting lessons as she had done for decades.

This week, she was felled by an infection that her 91-year-old immune system just couldn't beat. My grandmother was a fabulous woman, and she loved to entertain. Here are pictures of her after I was born in 1971, and dancing at my wedding in 2006. A longer slideshow is at http://www.flickr.com/photos/tags/vickierakoff/show/.

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/59363679/" title="Mi familia by RubyJi, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/25/59363679_8ab2d4815f_m.jpg" width="240" height="234" alt="Mi familia"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/93693154@N00/204594483/"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/71/204594483_7731091b18_m.jpg"></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When my mother&#8217;s family gathered in Austin at the end of last year, my son Izzy was re-introduced to his great-grandmother. (He couldn&#8217;t talk yet the first time he met her.) &#8220;Izzy, this is Bubbie.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Bubba!&#8221; he responded. We thought that was an appropriate nickname for my vivacious grandmother who moved from Long Island to Texas in her late 80&#8242;s. She moved to be near one of her daughters, and got a bonus in the shape of her other great-grandchild Abby, who was born in Austin few months after Izzy was born here in Chapel Hill. Grandma Vickie established her painting studio in the garage of her new home (it was in the attic when she lived in New York) and even resumed teaching oil painting lessons as she had done for decades.</p>
<p>This week, she was felled by an infection that her 91-year-old immune system just couldn&#8217;t beat. My grandmother was a fabulous woman, and she loved to entertain. Here are pictures of her after I was born in 1971, and dancing at my wedding in 2006. A longer slideshow is at http://www.flickr.com/photos/tags/vickierakoff/show/.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/59363679/" title="Mi familia by RubyJi, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/25/59363679_8ab2d4815f_m.jpg" width="240" height="234" alt="Mi familia"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/93693154@N00/204594483/"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/71/204594483_7731091b18_m.jpg"></a></p>
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		<title>Road trip triptych</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 02:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruby Sinreich</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/4759395436/" title="Road trip triptych by RubyJi, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4142/4759395436_595aecbb90_t.jpg" width="75" height="100" alt="Road trip triptych"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/4759395738/" title="Road trip triptych by RubyJi, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4134/4759395738_46e46a4583_t.jpg" width="75" height="100" alt="Road trip triptych"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/4758759287/" title="Road trip triptych by RubyJi, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4123/4758759287_af356333fb_t.jpg" width="75" height="100" alt="Road trip triptych"></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In about this order:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/4759395436/" title="Road trip triptych by RubyJi, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4142/4759395436_595aecbb90_m.jpg" width="180" height="240" alt="Road trip triptych"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/4759395738/" title="Road trip triptych by RubyJi, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4134/4759395738_46e46a4583_m.jpg" width="180" height="240" alt="Road trip triptych"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/4758759287/" title="Road trip triptych by RubyJi, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4123/4758759287_af356333fb_m.jpg" width="180" height="240" alt="Road trip triptych"></a></p>
<p>Rinse and repeat for 4 or more hours.</p>
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		<title>Meet my son</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 19:27:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruby Sinreich</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/3426846978"><img alt="Izzy" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3416/3426846978_f7f797b4e9.jpg" title="Izzy" class="aligncenter" width="450" height="337" /></a>
<strong>
Isidore</strong>
born April 3rd, 2009, 11:58 am 
at Women's Birth &#038; Wellness Center
6 lbs 5 oz, 18.25 inches
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<strong><br />
Isidore</strong><br />
born April 3rd, 2009, 11:58 am<br />
at Women&#8217;s Birth &#038; Wellness Center<br />
6 lbs 5 oz, 18.25 inches<br />
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		<title>Back from London</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jul 2007 01:55:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruby Sinreich</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I haven&#8217;t got time to blog all the fun stuff we did and saw in England. You can see my whole photo album on Flickr: http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/sets/72157600875310120/ Update: Brian made a short video of the trip. It&#8217;s a good compliment to the photos. Read on for a quick list of what we did and selected photos [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t got time to blog all the fun stuff we did and saw in England.  You can see my whole photo album on Flickr: http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/sets/72157600875310120/</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/sets/72157600875310120/" ><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1258/841004679_2e7aeacdb9.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="IMG 3234" /></a></p>
<p><ins datetime="2007-07-19T13:40:58+00:00">Update</ins>: <a href="http://www.yesh.com/blog/2007/07/19/our-trip-to-london/">Brian made a short video of the trip.</a>  It&#8217;s a good compliment to the photos.</p>
<p>Read on for a quick list of what we did and selected photos of our week.  </p>
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<strong>Wednesday</strong> </p>
<p>- traditional English breakfast at Porridge in Maida Vale<br />
- nap<br />
- visited Westminster Abbey to see the grave and memorial of Sir Isaac Newton<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/785251981/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1229/785251981_e4bebcd9a6_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="London day 1" /></a><br />
- dinner at a very old French place with ornate design and authentic rude French servers<br />
- saw a play in the West End: a remake of Hitchcock&#8217;s &#8220;The 39 Steps.&#8221; Very creatively staged and hilarious.</p>
<p><strong>Thursday</strong></p>
<p>- ate at a cafe overlooking the Thames<br />
- went to the Design Museum, featuring exhibits of Iraqi woman architect Zaha Hadid and avant, anti-consumerism graphic designer Jonathan Barnbrook.  (<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/sets/72157600876901367/">my pics</a>)<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841910914/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1260/841910914_39af1ef769_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3196" /></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841035795/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1172/841035795_668e64547b_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3200" /></a><br />
- walked along the South Bank and rode on the London Eye (see large photo above)<br />
- ate at Rasa (off Oxford Street), still probably the best Indian restaurant I&#8217;ve ever been to</p>
<p><strong>Friday</strong></p>
<p>- lunch at Celadon in Maida Vale &#8211; a  nice simple Thai place with yummy &#8220;vegetarian won ton soup&#8221;<br />
- Tate Modern!  Including the &#8220;Dali and Film&#8221; exhibit and &#8220;<a href="http://www.tate.org.uk/modern/exhibitions/globalcities/">Global Cities</a>&#8221; an installation about cities and development and social equity<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841865624/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1402/841865624_2b74e6cc05_m.jpg" width="180" height="240" alt="IMG 3245" /></a><br />
- dinner with old friends who also happened to be in town</p>
<p><strong>Saturday</strong></p>
<p>- got up early to drive to Gloucestershire for the Third Annual Party on the Hill<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841837752/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1406/841837752_38e6fdfd1d_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3284" /></a><br />
- camped on a hillside with a stunning view of Gloucester and the surrounding area<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841830636/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1285/841830636_f5c6d15385_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3299" /></a><br />
- drank Pimm&#8217;s and watched my dad play bass with a variety of musical folks<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/840962927/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1242/840962927_eac9bd478b_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3291" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Sunday</strong></p>
<p>- packed up in the rain <img src='http://lotusmedia.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
- drove back to London<br />
- walked down Abbey Road and took photos at the infamous zebra crossing<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841828876/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1090/841828876_302f7a946b_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3306" /></a><br />
- had dinner at Harry Morgan&#8217;s, a kosher diner in St. John&#8217;s Wood</p>
<p><strong>Monday</strong></p>
<p>- visited Brick Lane, home of a hundred south asian eateries and shops<br />
- randomly selected a restaurant called Chillies, scored a great lunch<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841827300/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1408/841827300_4c0f96dd38_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3315" /></a><br />
- walked around and saw some of a grad student art show and great street art<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841826792/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1223/841826792_9b8c9b6202_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3318" /></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841826406/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1010/841826406_0e1bdab33e_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3320" /></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/840954679/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1245/840954679_55ba0b90e5_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3323" /></a><br />
- searched for and eventually found Freedom Books and the Whitechapel Gallery, which turned out to be next door to each other, but the latter was closed.  Bought radical books at the former.  Also visited a cool store called Magma on the way home.<br />
- dinner with dad and stepmom, whose hospitality made this entire trip possible and worthwhile<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/841824462/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1141/841824462_56acb9a43e_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="IMG 3328" /></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/836169345/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1408/836169345_7791d83ce9_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="Leaving London" /></a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s amazing we did so much considering we rarely left the house before 1pm due to jetlag.  Next time (ie: things we would have liked to do but didn&#8217;t): Avebury and Stonehenge, Hyde Park, Portobello Road or Camden or Islington, canal tour, more museums. Whew!</p>
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		<title>The Rakoffs do Austin</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 17:30:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruby Sinreich</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just posted an album of photos on Flickr from our trip to visit my family in Austin. We had a great time. Austin is a really lovely city, although it was unseasonably cold. Here are some highlights&#8230; Grandma Vickie making latkes for Hanukkah Nice views from Mount Bunnell Hauling hay at the Y-Not Ranch, where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just posted <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/sets/72157594445091150/">an album of photos on Flickr from our trip to visit my family in Austin</a>.  We had a great time.  Austin is a really lovely city, although it was unseasonably cold.</p>
<p>Here are some highlights&#8230;</p>
<p>Grandma Vickie making latkes for Hanukkah<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/336444687/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/146/336444687_ffff68ef4c_m.jpg" width="180" height="240" alt="grandma making latkes" /></a><br />
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Nice views from Mount Bunnell<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/336448647/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/141/336448647_f8b14c8840_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="Nice view" /></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/336451051/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/140/336451051_9e1fb0366d_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="Looking downtown" /></a></p>
<p>Hauling hay at the Y-Not Ranch, where my aunt raises miniature cattle and donkeys<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/336456053/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/156/336456053_26b335a7f1_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="Y-Not Ranch" /></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/336457313/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/153/336457313_b0ab0dad06_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="Y-Not Ranch" /></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/336454058/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/123/336454058_689968c3c6.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="Y-Not Ranch" /></a></p>
<p>We observed the longstanding Jewish tradition of Chinese food for Christmas (note the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moonlight_tower">mooonlinght tower</a> in the background)<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/336462467/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/164/336462467_eaa230c30c_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="Mooonlight tower &#038; China Star" /></a></p>
<p>My mom dancing with a very nice Harley-riding tractor salesman in a blues bar (he was a good dancer, but she did not give him her number)<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rubyji/336464312/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/160/336464312_fd9fe98918_m.jpg" width="180" height="240" alt="Mom &#038; admirer" /></a></p>
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		<title>Asante (thank you)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Oct 2005 16:53:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruby Sinreich</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got blogged in Kiswahili (as well as English)! After my friend Caroline went to Kenya in 1992, she gave me a Swahili nickname, and I&#8217;ve been trying to remember it since I met Ndesanjo yesterday. After some searching I finally found it: kiongozi.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got blogged in <a href="http://jikomboe.blogspot.com/2005/10/jimmy-wales-wa-wikipedia-na-ruby-wa.html">Kiswahili</a> (as well as  <a href="http://digitalafrica.blogspot.com/2005/10/jimmy-wales-of-wikipedia-hoder.html">English</a>)! </p>
<p>After my friend <a href="http://www.atlantaheels.com/slides/10.html">Caroline</a> went to Kenya in 1992, she gave me a Swahili nickname, and I&#8217;ve been trying to remember it since I met Ndesanjo yesterday.  After some searching I finally found it: <a href="http://research.yale.edu/cgi-bin/swahili/lookup.cgi?Word=kiongozi&#038;EngP=0">kiongozi</a>.</p>
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