So Twitter will only respond to email@example.com, which was associated with @ruby. The hackers changed @ruby to @notrubyyo, and then deleted it. Who knows what address they have associated with the new @ruby account?
My Dreamhost account (which includes lotusmedia.org DNS) has been hacked and they are also not talking to me because I haven’t successfully proven who I am to them. (Only their customer of about 12 years.) Their password reset only uses e-mail, no security questions or SMS back up.
Dreamhost are also much slower to respond when they think I’m not a customer so it’s taking forever to get anywhere, and they refuse to talk on the phone.